Love is A Simple Thing

I woke up at 3 am and randomly wrote this after watching a new short from Phillip Wang. I have actually thought about this for so many times. I have tried to observe everything around my environment about how love works and when it doesn’t. I have told you that love is a fragile thing which you have to handle with care and yes perhaps it’s true.

Love is when we care so much about something. When we realize that we are too afraid to loose it. Maybe those are only some of the symptoms. I am not even an expert to explain about love and everybody must be really having different explanations about this stuff. Sometimes love scares me, sometimes love forces me to understand it deeper, sometimes I hate when love makes me have to cry, sometimes it also asks me to believe in something, but sometimes love never gives me chance to realize that it’s really them coming. You can never predict love. I have even thought about this so long before what Ed Sheeran simply wonders about how people fall in love in mysterious ways.  Love is a mystery and love mostly comes through the unexpected way

Once, love is much more complicated than I thought it could be but then I realize that maybe love is not that complex but its people who make it too complicated. Love is a simple thing actually. True love is built when two people finally know they belong into each other. My friend even says, love is not when you try to seek for each other but love is when they finally find each other. Somehow, people also say that they never have a reason to fall in love but unfortunately, they have lot of excuses to break it at the end.

Building a perfect relationship is not easy, I know. Beside, there is nothing perfect for anything in this world. A natural born nature of human being who will never be satisfied about something should be remembered too. Darling, it is actually not hard to feel love but to keep it is so much harder. You once must know a line saying taking care of something existed is harder than constructing it from the very beginning. I am just always confused why some people have more reasons to surrender than try to make it stay. Well, I never blame them because somehow love can’t always stay, sometimes better for us to find another way. It is not because we give up on it. We just try to steer the paddle into the other way which we think it’d be more worth it.

How many people in this world finally give it up at the end while they firmly said “I love you” thousand times at the beginning? And then they realize that “I love you” which is enough in the first place but unfortunately it is not anymore. How could you know that it is enough?  The answer says we can feel enough when we choose it is. It’s all only about choice. You choose to be enough or you choose to be not.

So, love is a simple thing, right?